St. Timothy's School in Raleigh | Military Town Advisor

Posted: May 8, 2025

We had high hopes for Saint Timothys, but unfortunately, our experience has been mixed at best. The school has been drifting in a more liberal direction, which may not align with every familys values. While there are some genuinely passionate teachers who care deeply about their students, the quality across the board is inconsistent. Each grade seems to have at least one teacher who is disinterested, overly authoritative, or simply not invested in teachingmore focused on control than growth.

Math in the middle school is especially concerning. The curriculum feels disorganized and uninspired, and theres little evidence of differentiation for students at different levels. Theres a particular emphasis on rigidity over learning, which makes it hard for students to thrive.

Posted: February 18, 2025

Exceeds all expectations! My kids are thriving.

Posted: May 4, 2024

Wonderful school! My child moved to St. Timothy's for middle school and it has been a great experience. The middle school years can be tough socially at any school, but the administration and teachers at St. Timothy's handle these situations with care and expertise. The academics, athletics and other extracurricular opportunites have exceeded our expectations. The teachers and administrators are excellent and truly care about the students. Highly recommend!

Posted: November 29, 2023

We have been at St. Timothy's for 7 years now. I have one child with learning differences and two without. Words can't begin to describe how amazing the school and their whole system has been for my children. They are all thriving in their own ways. I also had a medical issue in the past years and the support for my children and my family were something I have never seen in a school community before. The love and guidance for my children was bar none and the support for the family the same.
The SEL program is wonderful and the children really learn to be good stewards of their community, near and far.
I also appreciate the full time safety staff, they are wonderful and kind, and really do take the safety of the students so seriously. They know me well, but if I am on campus without my Visitors badge, they send me to the front office! Love them!
The family community is something we talk about all the time. We say that its wonderful and new parents don't always believe us, but after just a few weeks as a parent here, you feel it immediately!
If you are looking for an academically challenging school, with teachers who love and care for your children, this is the place to be!

Posted: November 16, 2023

We have been at St. Timothy's for 6 years and have had a wonderful experience. The school has a great community feel that makes it easy to be involved and get to know the teachers, faculty, and other parents as well. The academics are challenging without being overwhelming. There can be quite a bit of homework some nights but part of what the school teaches is time management and organization so this does help keep the homework at a manageable level most of the time. Socially, there are many opportunities for the students to interact with one another - either in the classroom with group projects and classroom participation, or at lunch and recess, through clubs, sports (either playing or watching and supporting the school), field trips, school dances for middle school and class socials. All three of my kids have thrived at St. Timothy's and we are very grateful for all the school has done to give my kids a great foundation for high school and beyond.

Posted: March 21, 2022

Great lower school. Middle school can be tough years. Administration and teachers care a lot. Parents not super involved. Great facilities for what they are working with in terms of space. Good athletic choices for all students.

Posted: March 21, 2022

Posted: June 5, 2021

STS is a top notch school! We moved to the triangle a few years back, had a terrible first month at another school. St. Timothys understood my childs transition from moving and ran with it. Our second grade teacher was literally godsend. Our 3rd grade teachers were a perfect fit for my child as we saw amazing growth this year! We havent had any issues with other students that werent simply kids being kid, those small issues were quickly resolved by the teachers. Staff and administration have always been transparent and couldnt have done a better job with Covid! A True Blessing!

Posted: June 5, 2021

Posted: May 25, 2021

Unchecked bullying in multiple grade levels. Kids gang up on other children. Administration and teachers look the other way.

Posted: May 25, 2021

Posted: March 31, 2021

There is a very real sense of pride and place in this school. You feel it as you step on the grounds. St Timothys is and always will be home. Your child will be known, and shown Faith, Hope, and Love while receiving an excellent education.

The Teachers, and Staff are great. They have always been responsive to my children and any question I have raised. My children have been at this school since prekindergarten and third grade, respectively. They were very helpful with my child's mid-year transition in the third grade. My children always feel welcome and known. Truly known, not just another student passing through. The Educators and Staff learn and care about your child, while teaching and equipping them with the skills they will need in the future. St. Timothy's School does a good job of balancing emotional, spiritual, and academic learning. Homework can be heavy at times, but they are willing to work one on one if needed. Our children love this school and are thriving.

During COVID, the efforts at the school to protect the students and the larger school community as a whole, have been fantastic. As a result, they have been able to offer children one of the safest learning environments possible. See more on their Covid efforts in a story on cbs17. Everyone should be commended for their tireless hard work and dedication over the past year. We are so fortunate that our children have had the chance to continue to learn and grow with their friends through the pandemic, with mostly in-person instruction.

As a former alumnus from the 80's, I have seen a lot of changes to the campus and school since I was there, but the traditions, love and community continue to flourish.

Posted: March 31, 2021

Posted: March 5, 2021

School is not focused on developing kids and managing the group of bully kids they have enrolled. The leadership model is to squelch those kids who are bullied. Teachers are all over the place, but seems to be a training ground for entry level. If your kid has any interest in sports, the school has very little space or facilities.

Posted: March 5, 2021

Posted: February 1, 2021

The best kept secret in Raleigh! Until now! My children are thriving, academically, socially, and emotionally. The staff and faculty are phenomenal and treat your children with the utmost respect. It is an amazing community of parents and students, and we could not be happier with our choice to become St. Timothy's Titans!

Posted: February 1, 2021

Posted: January 31, 2021

This is our fourth year at St. Timothy's. We have been extremely pleased with the academic and emotional support our daughters have received. The teachers and administration seem to truly care about the students, both on an educational and personal level. They are doing a fantastic job helping them build a solid foundation for learning and good character. I would highly recommend St. Timothy's.

Posted: January 28, 2021

St Timothys is not just a school for my children but a home. The teachers, support staff and parents are like an extended family. I have a tremendous sense of peace and joy when I think of the excellent learning and nurturing environment that is at St Timothys. My children are first and fourth graders and have been at this school since they were 4.5 years old in prekindergarten. I cannot think of a better place for my children to grow emotionally, spiritually or academically. The teachers go above and beyond to assist and prepare the kids. My choice for St Timothys has only been further solidified during COVID. The relentless pursuit by the school to protect our children and offer them the safest learning environment has been impressive to say the least. Best decision ever!

Posted: January 28, 2021

Posted: January 26, 2021

Our family cannot recommend St. Timothy's School enough. This is our fourth year at STS. We have a second grader and one in their pre-k program. Our oldest started in their pre-k program and has flourished not only in her academics but in her character development at well. Yes, as parents we teach this at home but STS help develops these important traits too! All of our teachers have worked with both of our girls to help teach them at the level that they need to be taught. Our teachers have always welcomed any questions or concerns that we have and helped us with anything we may need. Our administration is wonderful! During COVID and the shutdowns, our education has not been compromised and our health and safety have been their top priority, I cannot say enough about the family environment of the school. It is one of those places that when you walk in the doors, it just feels right. It is a big family. There are plenty of opportunities for parents to be involved, which was important to our family. St Timothy's has given not only my children a safe and nurturing place to get a wonderful education and as a parent, I could not be more thankful for such a wonderful school!

Posted: January 26, 2021

Posted: January 23, 2021

We moved our student to St. Timothy's in 3rd grade, after a very trying 2nd grade year in public school. We realize how lucky we are to have that option. Our student has flourished at St. Timothy's! The teachers and administration are so very responsive, caring and proactive. We can't recommend St. Timothy's enough, it's a wonderful school and a wonderful environment for our student.

Posted: January 22, 2021

I am so happy with our decision to send our children to St. Timothys School. Not only are the teachers excellent they are also kind and caring. Your child is not just another student. Both of my kids are thriving.

Posted: January 22, 2021

Our two children really enjoy attending St. Timothy's School. We have found it to be a very warm community where our children have flourished. We are thankful for each of the teachers and administrators at the school. We are also thankful for the school's leadership this past year during the pandemic as we never once felt unsafe sending our children to STS. We cannot recommend the school highly enough and look forward to being Titans for many years to come.

Posted: January 22, 2021

Posted: March 3, 2020

I don't have personal knowledge. But, I've heard from others that they work endlessly to help all children's situations.

Posted: March 3, 2020

I've been at a school that didn't know how to deal with bullying. At STS it is dealt with and the leadership is very effective in working with children/parents on the subject of bullying.

Posted: March 3, 2020

We were at another school school from K-5 and came to STS for middle school for our children. The transition to STS was wonderful. The biggest reason is the leadership....it is top notch!!!

Posted: March 3, 2020

St. Timothy's is an incredible place. I feel very lucky to have found this wonderful school for my children. We have made lifelong friends there and it will hold a special place in our hearts when we are gone!!!

Posted: March 3, 2020

The middle school homework is a good amount and gets them ready for high school. The amount of homework still allows them to have a good school/life balance. The are challenged without being overwhelmed.

Posted: March 3, 2020

Teachers are incredible. They are always available and fully invested in the children. Wonderful community of teachers.

Posted: March 3, 2020

The community of parents and teachers at STS is the best and it reflects in the children. My oldest is now in high school and he still carries his love for STS community. It is a special place.

Posted: January 28, 2020

The former lower school head was committed to this. I'm not sure what is happening now that she's gone.

Posted: January 28, 2020

9Brutal in middle school- there is no meaningful attempt to curb it.

Posted: January 28, 2020

Too much busy work and scripted worksheets. Not a lot of applied learning or innovation in assignments.

Posted: January 28, 2020

Some are great and others are not very modern in their approach.

Posted: January 28, 2020

They have completely lost control of the culture at the middle school level. Bullying is thinly veiled at best and administration doesnt seem to care or promote kindness or inclusion with this age group that needs it most

Posted: January 28, 2020

Focused on fundraising and not the things that actually make the school better culturally(which facilitates fundraising).

Posted: January 28, 2020

Average- one would expect more from a private Episcopal school with these enrollment numbers

Posted: September 17, 2019

Students are responsible for their learning and I love that. Homework is given but its easy to complete and still promotes a love for learning.

Posted: September 17, 2019

Our K and 1st grade teachers were so loving and attentive to my son.

Posted: September 17, 2019

We have loved our experience at STS. Most of my friends have had at least one major issue within their public school and we haven't had any. The teachers care about my child and meet him where he is academically. They communicate with me effectively and he is challenged based on his strengths and weaknesses. Cannot say enough good things about the teachers, community of parents, and the kindness that we have received.

Posted: August 19, 2019

The lower school did a good job of this but the middle school has little to no time or interest in any student hat falls outside the "Cubicle" life robots they pride most.

Posted: August 19, 2019

We did not experience any bullying whilst there so can't speak to this question.

Posted: August 19, 2019

Poor - Teachers are not very caring or experienced, relatively high turn over in staff with the more experienced teachers being replaced by young les experienced, I guess this helps with budgeting and allocation of more revenue to the new yard project!

Posted: August 19, 2019

Homework was random and varied considerably in contact and duration to complete.

Posted: August 19, 2019

I am not sure what but the a significant number of the Teachers here don't have children of their own, whilst this does make or break a good teacher it does help with understanding how the typical child behaves in a normal environment outside of the classroom. They are not robots! The teachers at this school expect all the children to behave like robots and be perfect all the time! The school motto should be changed from "Life Ready" to "Cubicle Life Ready".

Posted: August 19, 2019

Everybody has to get a medal at St. Timothys, if you feel this is correct then you will love this school, however if you feel you need to work and earn a medal this school is not for you. Character is built with guidance not issued.

Posted: August 19, 2019

Leadership is most interested in raising funds for the new yard to be constructed than hiring and employing, experienced (10+ years) and caring teachers.

Posted: May 2, 2019

It is a good balance. No too much, but enough to enhance the classroom.

Posted: May 2, 2019

This is the reason my children attend STS

Posted: May 2, 2019

Better than expected. I have 3 very different children and all 3 are able to thrive in their own special ways.

Posted: April 4, 2019

I go to this school and it is GREAT

Posted: April 4, 2019

Posted: December 5, 2018

My son has attended STS K-8. What a blessing it has been to our family. I can think of no better place for him. STS is a special place that prepares children for high school, college and life. His needs have been accommodated in every way.

Posted: December 5, 2018

Posted: August 16, 2018

Horrible school, stay away from this school!!! Much better options out there!!!

Posted: August 16, 2018

Posted: May 9, 2018

I don't have experience in this area.

Posted: May 9, 2018

We had one incident where our child and another child were not agreeing with each other. The teacher facilitated a wonderful lunch and conversation and now the two are very respectful and friendly to each other.

Posted: May 9, 2018

We LOVE the teachers. They are so easy to communicate with and have been so helpful in tackling various kid-related issues. They are amazing!

Posted: May 9, 2018

Are children have really blossomed into incredible, compassionate and well-behaved individuals with excellent communication skills and we feel the school plays a major part in this.

Posted: May 9, 2018

At pre-k and 2nd grade we feel like the homework load is totally manageable.

Posted: May 9, 2018

Exceptional. I can't rave about St. Timothy's enough. The academics, extra-curriculars, community, teachers and families are all amazing! Our children LOVE school and so do we!